You're making 8k a month and want to take a pay cut of 6500/month and get to spend a ton of time away from your wife and family. If you hate your family, you hate the money you are making, you hate having the freedom to do and say what you want, then by all means, join up.
Oh and this is MY little power school 'fallen standards' story.
I am fairly new and nubbly (fleet wise), hence being bitter and pissed off all the time. But back when I was in NPS a bit over a year ago I decided I was going to tutor the weaker students because I am incredibly good at the school environment. The one I took under my wing had waivers for:
Assault
Jail time
Drug usage
GED
and my favorite waiver, too many waivers waiver. Get more than ten and that will be your eleventh. He is not allowed to own a baseball bat in the state of New Jersey. He failed A school math in the square root club (lower than 1.0 both tests). But he was my classmate, and we were all going to get through this together, so since I didn't need to spnd the time studying, I helped him study instead. He graduated with a 2.7 something. Not a single person in our section failed out, we got them all through. That's called being a shipmate and helping the weakest link. As for integrity, he was told by a chief, if you ain't cheating you ain't tryin'. That's NNPP today. I'm happy to say that all he needed was to buckle down and pay attention and to try and retain the material in ways that made sense, that was his problem, he tried to study and would get distracted and goof around, or he would just try to rote memorize the material. If you understand then you know, if you know it then you sure as heck won't forget it for the test, because the answer will be obvious and make sense. You might get hit for the way you say it, but you will still get a passing score on the question.