...with all of these suggestions, I haven't seen the answer to his alcohol problem...or anyone with an addiction problem, which is Prayer, God and Faith..I know this will be deleted because I mentioned God, because it has been done before, but I am not afraid to mention my savior, I stayed drunk for 25 years, and did some other non-mentionables also..it wasn't until I let go, and let God, that I got sober....Tomorrow, July4th, 2008 will be my 10th sober 4th of July, not by Bud's doing, because if it was left to me, I would celebrate, but with God in charge...I don't have a problem anymore,,,,,so if any of you read this before it get's deleted, that's my opinion on the alcohol, and where to get help for it..or where I get my help..... as for the money well I am like alot of you, you need to man up,,,I will pray for you and your wife's situation, and recovery. Red