Alright already; yes, by choosing military service, you have the added bonus of having a very low probability of giving your life for your country. On average, is it more dangerous than working the back shift at an inner city convenience store? I doubt it.
I have a hard time understanding why anyone's giving this young woman a hard time for wanting to serve her country. Will it be easy? No. Will there be a lot of details to work out? Yes [perhaps too many], but that's for her to deal with, and that's what I thought that she was asking for advice on.
Personally, I don't believe this "No one can raise a child like it's mother" stuff. One of my favorite lines from the movie "Parenthood" goes something like this:
"You need a license to drive a car, fish, hunt, or own a dog, but any b*++-r#@ming @$$hol# can be a father."
Not to attack the sanctity of motherhood, but that goes for mothers too. The thing that gives you the child (i.e., sex), in no way qualifies you to raise the child. Who says that everybody's an expert at it [motherhood or sex]. Personally, I think that there are some very competent and loving childcare professionals out there who create a wonderful environment for their young charges. Are you telling me that every woman who gives birth is going to do a better job because she has womb? Really?
This young woman is trying to better herself and her lineage through service. I say "go for it and best of luck," but please remember that it is service and not just an opportunity. Try not to be one of those constant problem children who can never focus on your work [forcing everyone else to pick up the slack] because you're always juggling things. I'm not saying that you will, but it is a pretty classical stereotype, and it's no fun for anyone involved.
Love your child, do good work, and pray a lot. You just might make it. I hope that you do.
Peace be with you,
mgm