If your resume looks anything like some of your posts (e.g. spelling and grammar mistakes, punctuation errors, etc.), I wouldn't take a second look at it. I realize this is a public forum, and I know it's been mentioned before, but attention to detail counts for a lot. Everybody here understands that you're under a lot of stress, but this job also involves stress. If you're blowing up at us here, how will you react when dealing with a nuclear reactor or its associated jobs?
Content in resumes counts more than grammar/spelling. I can show you a 4.0 grammatically correct resume that will have no hope of getting its author a job.
Attention to detail in a Forum Post counts for nothing. We don't know her, she doesn't know us, and many people get jobs, join the Navy, have kids, without visiting "Nukeworker" for permission.
I've seen people come completely unglued "on the job". The worst posting in here is tame compared to real life.
Otherwise, the OP needs to hear from a "mom" who has been able to manage two full time jobs: Nuclear (toughest technical job) and Mom (toughtest job in Life). <Insert sound of chiping crickets for now>
My $0.25 opinion: you have to chose (at least initially) one "toughest job" and do well at it. The people I've seen try both are marginal at both. This isn't a sexist perspective though...same holds true for the Dads out there. Going to to sea and leaving your family behind is a HUGE sacrifice...you pick the job (Dad's don't normally get an option of going to shore duty if they're expecting a baby....now THAT is sexist!)
Separately, the OP is also the "head of household" on the income chart. (Make that 3 tough jobs then).
Sorry, we can't help you with this decision. The rest is just banter here on Nukeworker where in the absence of adding value to a thread, we spell check it.
