I agree. Coddle them here because that is what they are used to and let them get it full in the face when they get to the semi-real world of the USN. 
(OK, I lied. I don't agree.)
As far as operational standards and consequences go, the commercial nuclear industry is the real world.
However, the amount of individual scrutiny and all around "taking shit" would be most experienced in what can be a slightly less than professional navy environment. At least on a personal level and in a developmental way. Control room scrutiny is intense yes, but by then it is not new.
A teenager out of high school who googled his way here is not a salty sailor/hp/op/security guy who should know better.
There are better ways to guide these guys than jumping on them with the same old scrutiny.
Also, the idea of the forum is to help people. You can search on an informational site and pull up research. The forum is designed to mix seasoned veterans with motivated newcomers to discuss career goals, industry events, advice, outages for the roadies, and general topics for those of similar backgrounds. At least that's my take. Some things have been beaten to death and can be found already, which is why I am a huge fan of merging all of the similar topics into one threads and highlighting the really good ones at the top of the category.
This site was tremendously beneficial to me in my transition from the Navy to commercial ops. I would like to see it do the same for others. I think it gets lost on some of the salty dogs in here that some of these guys are fresh out of high school and really don't know better. These guys who are Navy bound will get it in the face soon enough. I have no excuses for the guys who should know better.
I just think there has to be a better way to redirect people than the less than pleasant crap that I have seen flooding the threads lately.