My husband, David passed away this morning (10/5/2015). He was admitted to the hospital September 14th with anemia. It soon turned out to be a lot more than that. We found out that it was APS. Basically his body was creating antibodies that would attack his blood cells. They tried treating it the normal way that they do with everyone else but it almost killed him and did not work.
They tried a 5 day treatment with other peoples antibodies and we were so hopeful. It failed and they did a last ditch effort with chemo to see if it would stop, that was Friday. He went downhill so fast since then.
He always would talk about nukeworker and smiting 'nubs' for being not so bright or stupid as he would put it. He said that he didn't care if people knew about what killed him or who knew. They say it was the lung cancer that killed him but it was really APS. He was doing fine until August 7th. We are coping and everything is moving so fast. As I would have told him, I played grown up a lot today.
It's been awhile since I've posted.
I don't check these boards and will likely never return or post again. But most of you long time board members remember me I'm sure.
I got the news via text this morning (coming in from nightshift) from Dave's wife. I felt compelled to offer my response publicly where I had met Dave.
Teeders (withholding your real name since you did the same) .. I appreciate you letting us know and am very sorry for your loss.
Dave and I talked and texted very regularly. And like everyone else will miss him very much.
You will always be in my prayers.
You have my number if you need anything.
My very best to you and yours.