How to Criticise with Kindness

[Marlin]

This article is clearly counter culture for many on Nukeworker

How to Criticise with Kindness




Criticism online can easily perpetuate, until someone gets ‘shut down’.


http://upliftconnect.com/how-to-criticise-with-kindness/


 






The best analogy to me for many of our Nukeworker posters is still "Motor Mania" just substitute Computer Mania. 

[TVA]

You are paid to take it. Just be matter of fact and move on. No need for kindness.

[Marlin]

You are paid to take it. Just be matter of fact and move on. No need for kindness.

I think that is what Weinstein told the young starlets.  Abuse whether sexual or bullying is not expected nor is it professional, but then I don't expect you to get that.



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[TVA]

Last I knew Weinstein doesnt have an SRO License. Not a very intelligent comparison.

[Marlin]

Last I knew Weinstein doesnt have an SRO License. Not a very intelligent comparison.

It's an excellent comparison for those capable of seeing it. Just because you think an abusive action is acceptable does not make it so.

[Red Gold]

You are paid to take it. Just be matter of fact and move on. No need for kindness.

At the places I've worked, criticism delivered in the way this thread refers to - that is to say, in a harassing or unnecessarily aggressive manner - is in violation of company HR policies, and at those workplaces it's considered a duty to report harassment and toxic workplace behaviors if possible. So, you might say that you are actually paid not to put up with it.

[RDTroja]

You forget... he's an EGO... uh, I mean SRO. Nevermind, same thing.

* Disclaimer: I do not really  think all SROs are egomaniacal morons. But a few vocal ones seem to be.

[Chimera]

Okay . . . I'm starting to feel triggered    (searching for my safe place)

[retired nuke]

Turning 60 in 2 weeks
getting ready to retire
"get off my lawn" is one of my favorite movie quotes
this is as nice as I will ever be again.

[SloGlo]

this thread started off wit a sub-lesson from the first day morning segment of a 36 our leadership certificate class.
dew knot knead two reed between the lines too sea whose bin thru that class.

[Chimera]

Been through that class - always preferred "effectively" to "with kindness"

[SloGlo]

Been through that class - always preferred "effectively" to "with kindness"

effectively/with kindness
vinegar/honey
witch equals efficient two the highest degree?

[Marlin]

Been through that class - always preferred "effectively" to "with kindness"

I prefer professional to either.

[GLW]

I prefer professional to either.

I saw that movie,...

"The Professional",...

yeah, not a whole lot of kindness went with the criticism in that rendition of professional,...

[Chimera]

While there are instances where that may be the most "effective" way, it's generally frowned on at work.

[scotoma]

Happy Birthday HouseDad. I guess that is as nice as I can be today. I promise to stay off your lawn.

[SloGlo]

You are paid to take it. Just be matter of fact and move on. No need for kindness.

sew, guessing that 'coaching' is a waist of thyme.

[SloGlo]

fingered that this thread wood bee best four listing a best apology methodology
http://www.cnn.com/2017/11/10/health/how-to-apologize-say-sorry/index.html