Congratulations DarkMesa8!
I too am waiting on a security waiver. I was at MEPS July 30th, but have until Feb 7 (about 6 months to your 3 months in DEP) plan on calling my recruiter (and his senior recruiter, same office) every two weeks about status. If I can get no response by end of august, I'll be calling my district Navy office in Pittsburgh and asking them who the Nuclear Field coordinator is for this area.
I was told it would take a month, but from your posts it can take longer. Fortunately, I have longer in DEP than you did to figure it all out.
For those of you in here, is this appropriate behaviour for me to do?