Thanks guys,
I really don't care whether or not the advice comes from an officer or an enlisted. However, I have experienced the enlisted side of things and have had good officers and bad officers in charge of me. The reason why I asked for specific input from any of the O-dogs out there is that often times there are things that we as enlisted just don't get (just as there are things that officers just don't get, unless they are a good officer...hmmm...maybe I answered part of my own question). Any input is appreciated, however, the haircut thing, the makeup thing, etc... that stuff will be taken care of by the command if and only if the officer (or sailor for that matter) understands why those requirements are there. Having said that, some of the best officers I have ever had, had the sloppiest uniforms. I am looking more specifically for input on surface officer life (as I have no real idea of what that is like), tips and tricks on how to survive the YEARS spent qualifying the various watchstations on a sub, then going to engineering school, then coming back and requalling, and just when you figured it all out, off to a shore command. I am looking for an officers input on how to be an effective leader of enlisted sailors when you just got to the boat straight out of prototype and sub school and you are given RL div and have a crusty 20 year 1st class who some where along the lines got passed over for chief, but does really in fact know everything and he'll be damned if some runt with butter bars onhis shoulder is going to tell him how to run his division. Does this help? These kids are going to be handed a division and have close to zero idea what to do. The Navy does have stuff in place to help ease that, but I would like to offer these kids a couple of tidbits of advice that maybe they will remember and go "Aha! That is what he was talkign about!" when the time comes.
Any input from experienced sailors would be appreciated also.
Thanks,
Bill