1st of all i just want to thank everyone that has posted (especially Sharon) and that will hopefully post a response.
The problem isnt windows XP, the problem is the password is on the bios. I will try to tell you everything i can about jennifers laptop. It is a dell inspiron 1000, with phoenix bios. We both had our own computers, so i never used her laptop. There was never a reason for me to get on her work computer (ironically she worked for gateway).
I would assume i could flash the bios, but will that take the pass away, and if it wont boot (because of the password) how do i flash them? When i turn on the computer it shows the dell screen and then straight to a password.
I have taken the computer apart, and have found the jumper pins, they are on the underside near the RAM and there is a set of 3 (total of 6) There is no jumpers on any of them. I tried to use a piece of foil to short them out in every possible configuration but still..no dice!
Thank you again for all your help and look forward to an answer.
Peter