Who I hang out with outside of work should be no one's concern but mine and certainly should not disqualify me from a job if I had the credentials.
I'm afraid you may be right in the future, given the current president. But you are not correct at the moment. Why do you think there is a "don't ask, don't tell" policy? This was the liberal's way of keeping in service of their country those 10% or so of society's square pegs that do not fit into round holes. (I came up with that germane pun all by my lonesome) If it didn't matter what they did behind closed doors, on their "own" time, there wouldn't be such a policy.
And while we are on the subject of "own time"... Once you sign a contract, you are government property, which means you are effectively owned by the government. Any liberties that you enjoy while thusly owned or employed is purely at the pleasure of said owner--NOT YOU!
I realize the Pepsi commercials probably gave you the impression that your moral relativism is in alignment with society; but here lately, tea sales are going through the roof.
deltarho