Hi all again,
Ok I talked to my recruiter again and I was finally able to get them proactive about this situation. Another recruiter (more knowledgeable) helped out as mine didn't know what to do, besides saying everything will be fine. I have explained my situation in more detail, emphasizing the fact the fact that I want those papers to be straight before I ship out so I cannot be accused for lying. He was told by the other recruiter to contact MEPS and correct all the information, since he finally realizes that all of this will come up. I have made sure to tel him that he does this not just for the DUI, but for all the charges I mentioned. He will do this as soon as possible (he better), since I am due to ship out in less then 2 months, being out of the country for one of them. He says I won't get denuked. he brought up an example of another recruiter who was moved recently, who was a nuke and re-enlisting as an officer, who had clearance even though he had a DUI. I don't know hot to take all these promises, but I hope he is right.
People on this board has helped me to make this difficult decision, with a high risk, but now I feel more at peace about this situation. Thanks