Gentlemen,
lets remember that our words here will last - unless we are so profane that they must be swept aside. With this in mind we should be aware that what we say here is
not for ourselves alone. Perhaps whats missing is outside perspective, although I think you both can see this yourselves. Its time to concede the accuracy of one another's thoughts.
Charlie Murphy and others have a very good point. Those who are not ready to admit there mistakes, especially past dishonesty-don't belong in any situation where the utmost safety is demanded. As such, not answering to these mistakes is dangerous and unacceptable. We each have our flaws, and thats why growth is so important-we must bear down on these flaws with strength and disallow them from effecting our behavior.
Captain America has a very good point. Those who discount the honesty of others are also dangerous to any operation demanding safety. If you can't, or refuse to trust those working around you, then you weaken the entire group. A chain is made strong because each link trusts the next link, it doesn't believe that the next link might just break under the pressure-that it might not make it-that it might not be valuable. This would be a very weak chain. Dependency on one another is of course absolutely mandatory for success.
Refusing to admit our mistakes-makes us weak. Refusing to trust one another-makes us weak.As a group, neither are acceptable.I believe that each of you fully understand both of these principles. Its time to concede that each of you have a point-battle lines need not be drawn in the hopes of separating an issue which is interdependent. Having the strength to admit your mistakes is almost always met with respect. Some will try to dodge this for the discomfort of it. Having the strength to trust one another builds a team-and is the only way that strong links become an unbreakable chain.
I appreciate both of you outlining these mandatory principles of behavior.
Back to the topic at hand:Today I was asked to write up a hand-written report on my drug use, and my traffic tickets. I haven't begun writing my finished copies, but have started outlining why these things occurred. In these writings I've had to do both of the things mentioned above. I'm doing some research on writing waivers on this site now...
http://www.nukeworker.com/forum/index.php/topic,22421.0.htmlhttp://www.nukeworker.com/forum/index.php/topic,17857.0.htmlhttp://www.nukeworker.com/forum/index.php/topic,14764.0.htmland many more...
What I haven't found is any information regarding the acceptable position in this. Should it be a 10 pager? A thesis?
Or a short "I was bad...I wish I wasn't, but I was...I'm over it-the past was a great learning experience that will never be repeated"
Any response is greatly appreciated in this regard.

-Glen