Thank you everyone for the replies- especially Already Gone, for the honest answers.
I just remembered one more thing regarding the drug use question: when I first used marijuana, my parents found out about it and sent me to outpatient drug rehab for about two weeks. They determined that I was not addicted, or basically that I didn't have a problem, and recommended that I leave, so I did. The whole thing was so insignificant that I completely forgot about it, and just remembered. Will this complicate any waivers or clearances for joining the nuke program, or will it totally disqualify me?
Your username is appropriate, that is "WannaBe". You are 18 years old, still in high school, and you want to be a Nuke.
Well I have news for you, there are a lot of things I wanted to be that never happened, wanting to being a Nuke did. Even after accepted as a Nuke, I wanted to be on PBR's, or Swifts, heck, I even passed the initial endurance screening for UDT (there were no seals then), I was a Nuke, and all those other options were not paths the Navy would let be volunteer for. (they did offer subs, to which I said NO)
You have done things in your young life that may preclude you from doing what you want.
Here is the deal. You lie and then spend the next few years wondering if that lie will catch up with you and they toss your butt out or send you to First Divison. You tell the truth, and let the Navy decide. Same thing goes for having a problem with distinguishing between colors.
Here is the rub. Unless things have changed sinece I went in, the Navy on looks into these things AFTER you have signed the papers. Once that is done, they own you lock, stock, and barrel. They will find a place for you that meets the needs of the service.
If prior drug use precludes you from a getting a security clearance, you are toast. Deck or supply is in your Navy future, if that is what you want to call it.
If not, there is the 'color blind' issue. If that keeps you from being a Nuke, kiss off all the other technical ratings as well.
So here you are at the craps table, you can roll the dice betting 6 years of you life on what will happen after the Navy owns you, or you can go with sure bet, and that is to college.
If you still want to be a Nuke, keep yourself clean of drugs, work hard in school in the appropriate engineering or physics disiplines, and try to get in as an officer.
I will guarantee you this. After two years in college, you will have a different attitude and many many more options then you would have after two years in the Navy.
Think about it...