If I remember from when I was there (20 yrs ago) a lot of the people at Salem / Hope Creek live in Delaware and commute. Not a big problem during normal operations, but that commute can get long during outages.
I commute an hour each way to my plant (not Salem / Hope Creek), but it puts my family in the community that is good for them. Small price to pay.
Good luck, and thank your husband for his service, and thank you and your family for their sacrifice.