Tell the army/civilians that run meps that you are only depping in while you wait on a waiver (and do not plan to go if it is not granted) and see how well that gos over
Are you serious?
1. Join the Navy cause you want to be in NAVY! (if you fail to make nuc they will not let you out with a handshake!)
2. Be a Nuke cause it is what you want to do/learn!
3. Always have a worst case plan and be ready!
4. A verbal promise last as long as its echo! (if you wnet and bought a corvette and they gave you the keys to a malibu guess what you are driving home!)
5. "STOP, LOOK, LISTEN" is not just for little kids croissing the street. (get info from unbiased people then decide, FYI I am in now and have been for almost 23 years, love the Navy and do not want you in it if you are going to be pissed off from day 1 or the day you get bounced from nuc program)!
What info should I be looking for? Honestly, the only people that are in have some bias because they were either navy or ex navy, and the Navy treated them well. My army friends also tell me they'd go Navy because the Navy officers (while doing joint ops) always treated them better. It is my aspiration to be one of those Navy guys, but some bias in the information gathering is unavoidable.
I do agree about the last statement. I don't want to go in, if I'm not going to be happy about that. I'm a little annoyed, but right now I look forward to it all and trying to get the best option I can (taking lessons from you guys, I refuse word of mouth roadblocks unless it is quoted and shown by the book -- getting the truth is hairy sometimes, but in my best interest).
I'm joining the Navy for 1-2, but here for 3, and because I understand 4.
Don't get me wrong, I've been advised by friends to enjoy regular ET (from a nuke MM-ELT of 9 years straight out of highschool no less) and everyone I've met that was in AECF seems overall happier and more well balanced (no offense to nuke guys, you just have to handle more stress than the rest, so your temperament may be different).
I *like* the Navy, and I think I'd enjoy the AECF life, but I'd probably apply for sta commissioning earlier as a regular ET than a nuke enlister.
Worst case scenario (I think), I go as an ET, have an 'easy' time, and grab my credits in college, and finish my BS degree in Chem E coming out age 29 with both Navy and College experience. That isn't a bad life by any means. However...
#2. Ideally, I'd love to work hard and possibly even apply for sta, finish degree (not as hard as it has to given I'm a few steps ahead in that field), and come back serving as a Nuke Officer, and serve the Navy and enlisted guys from all sides. Navy enlisted, College /w engineering degree, and through OCS & Nuke pipeline with you guys.
I have gripes IF its not all above board (if someone isn't following regs...), but so far it seems to be. I'm planning for #3, worst case, in case #4 verbal promise of security waiver's not being filed.
I'm told it takes no more than a month, so I should have a response by end of august, or mid september. I am hopeful, but not totally bonkers. My ship date is scheduled for Feb, so there SHOULD be plenty of time to sort anything screwloose out.
Is the security clearance estimate of one month true? If so, I would have a few chances in case someone's not doing their filing as they should. My recruiter's station should get word, contact me, do an interview by phone over there, sign paperworks, all within a month (I'm guessing two) the Job classifier at MEPS said (I wish I asked to see the actual regulation book on that). If not... I have 5 months (Ship date Feb 07, 2007) to sort everything out and either come to terms and be happy or request to the CO of MEPS wanting out.
I'm aware that I may write a letter to the CO of the MEPs station requesting to leave the DEP program up until the day of shipping out. I think I have enough time. I requested at least a few months from the job classifier, but apparantly there were no slots available for until Feb, which is good for me (more time to sort things out, and to exercise)
If not accepted, see you nukes from the other side. This will be one ET who won't give Navy nukes any flack for what they do.
I realize I may seem like a fidgeting little kid. But honestly, there's nothing else I can do at this moment than prepare information for the worst, and make sure my options are good even then. I'm doing the best I can, but while I'm not shipped out, I'm going to be a bit edgy on tenuous ground because it all comes down to processing and clearance that's invisible to me at this point. Will I be faulted for being born elsewhere after swearing to be a citizen here and to serve here? That would be sad for me. I won't deny I wouldn't like that. I still look forward to Navy life (though gunning for an officer position

).
I really do like the Navy. I have friends in the Navy and US Armed Forces. Their respect and support is really helpful in choosing to go navy. It wasn't a requirement for me, but I appreciate them and you guys here for filling me in and lending a helpful word here and there. Thanks for giving me an honest and useful response.
I REALLY hope the security clearance guys are competent and the 'rules' are fair and followed. Then they'd see I am just an honest 23 yr old kid who's naturalized, been here almost 2 decades with my parents, with no ties or holdings to foreign interests (other than simply birth), and serve as best I can without getting into trouble. But all that seems out of my hands, and I cannot find any unclassified regulation #'s that deal with this specific proceedure.
If their noses are clean, without bias, and follow their rules... I'll be satisified, but I would like to make use of proper proceedures if I suspect there's improper proceedures being done (following in line with suggestion #3, and partly #4 preparing for worst)