Alright, after bootcamp, what exactly is the situation with having a girlfriend? How soon is it possible to get an apartment off base and bring someone out there with you, and are there any on-base options for the non married sailor(99% sure there are none, but I figured I'd ask)? As for what I'm getting myself into, I think I know about as much as I'm going to without actually having done it- I'm just looking for the details on this, not relationship advice. Thanks everyone!