Don't take "nooners" until after you have qualified your first watch and stood your first set of drills. This will pop your cherry--pun intended--and will show your shipmates that you are not a slug.
Qualify all the damage control stuff you can, not in tandem, but at the same time you are doing the nuke qualifications. This will set you apart. If there is still such a thing as a P-250 pump, learn how it works and demand theory to practice--light one off on your own. Again, setting you apart. Surface Pukes (I was one) tend to shun DC, but don't be fooled by the fact that the ship is floating. A surface ship always steams at test depth, unlike our sisters in the submarine force who patrol above test depth and only occaisionally flirt with danger.

When I left the Navy, there were only about 8 women nukes left from the first wave. They, at least the ones I knew about, were well respected. You can have that, too!