Hello again, it's the nervous wife!

You all had such good advice beforehand, so I figured you'd give me the straight story on SRO.
Husband is being looked at by a few companies for SRO (he's got the watch something qual, I don't know). Being the Navy wife that I am, the salary range looks really good and the bonuses that the companies are dangling in front of him could get our child through college. However, he's leery to go that way because of rotating shift work, long work weeks, and just a general lack of family time. Now, before you blast either one of us, please know that I honestly want him to have a job that he's happy with (especially since this command has been a soul killer), and his information is " a friend of a friend told his cousin..."
So, tell me--is SRO as bad as we've heard? Don't get me wrong, he's not averse to working hard and long hours if that's what it takes, but he had hoped to go into a Training position. My line of thinking is that if he did 5 years SRO (depending on if he qualified), he could use that SRO to move into Training. He thinks that once you become a SRO, the companies like to keep you there because of SRO shortages. Right now he's willing to take SRO with a certain company because it gets us in the area we'd like to be, so I guess I'm looking for some reassurance that it won't be so bad.
As for the money, I was kind of joking about it; I know that bonuses are never a given and that the high range is not what you start with. If he were to be offered a mid five figure Training position, I would support him taking it, but honestly, that higher SRO salary would really help us make this transition from Navy to civilian life.
Any and all feedback is appreciated; I've got fairly thick skin -and some good meds